I got a message from him today and i used it to counsel him to realize , what damage he caused to himself. he promptly replied that he did not know, and he has done in good faith thinking that it was the procedure. he has sincerely expressed sorry too. I frankly told him as to how to convey your feeling to others!!! perhaps this person would not, i believe, repeat this method from now on.
By the way, I remember to have seen that a member would be be eligible to post a PM until he posts at least a predetermined open posts, thus enable himself. Also, if possible, there could be a brief list (bulletted of course) that the terms and disciplinary conditions, before a person is allowed to become a member. He / she has to tick to the effect of agreeing to the conditions. A caution can also be built in that in case of violation, the member could be banned for a predetermined period or permanently. I request the administrator to please try to see the practicability of the above suggestions,
all this I am suggesting with no dis regard to new comers and perhaps in their interest for as precaution only.