I am looking for a circuit that could be turned on to close a relay by the first pulse and then turned off by a second pulse. Ideally I would like to use a transmitter like a garage door opener to generate the pulse, but I would like a much greater range than a garage door opener.
Don't know. Never looked.
It should be possible to wire directly to the sounder, or else make a small preamp with electret mike to pick up the ring tone.