micro timer help plz ASAP :( im having it after 2 few days :(

You could try loading the .asm file into MPLAB and using the simulator. It has a stopwatch, view registers, single-step mode, etc...

you still did not post any schematics
did you try to check the program you posted
looks really weird at some places

and i thought of a simple idea today ..
feel that this would be easier than using interrupts
configure timer as counter for measuring external pulses
and uses a simple delay loop to provide a known delay - say 100 milliseconds
the number of pulses is inverse of frequency .. but u dont need to convert either
you can simply take action depending on this count