Okay ran into a problem. I think this is what you were saying earlier about the relay not turning off. When I turn the light switch off and on fast and don't touch the ir remote, the light bulb sometimes doesn't go off until I flip the switch and extra time. I was just wondering if this is normal. It only happens when I flick the light switch on and off fast, otherwise under normal operating circumstances it works great. I think this is because the electromechanical relay is slow. I have the 3 way switch hooked up to the nc and no terminals on the relay, common on the switch is sent to the light bulb.