I've been following this thread with a modicum of interest.
I still consider myself a relative noob.
Don't think the forum is dying so much as evolving, which is to be expected and, IMHO, a good thing. And as with most things evolving, some members may see growth and others see decline. So it goes.
Any public situation carries the seed of riot, revolt, bad behavior, poor decisions and bad language. Similarly, their opposites.
While I have been the object of some public derision on a couple of occasions, overall my experience has been marvy and enlightening.
I also think that ericgibbes (did not know he was the sole moderator) does a yeoman's job of keeping this forum on an even keel. Don't know the man, of course, but his even-handedness (best I can tell) is extraordinary.
I like ETO a lot, and it's a part of my daily routine.
But I'm not so naive as to expect a orgasm on every visit.