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To program a PIC requires 3 pins;
PGC (program clock)
PGD (program data)
Vpp (prog voltage, MCLR pin)
and the PIC also needs the Vdd (ie +5v) and GND connected so it has power!
The PIC pinout in the datasheet will have those 5 pins clearly labelled.
Also, in the chapter "special features of the CPU" there is usually a small section on ICSP (in circuit serial programming) which has a diagram showing how to connect those pins.