Sounds familiar. Certain disputes have been one of the bigger reasons for people leaving/getting tossed around here.
Seems like the main issue always starts with the odd disappearances of posts and threads but only by certain members and in certain areas of the forums.
It's almost like certain people or a person thinks they need to hide certain knowledge around here.
I know Boncuk had issues with the scrubbings at times as well. Sorry to hear he most likely passed on. (Or was he just permabanned and it was never listed on his avatar?)