the second button is a microswich it does'nt matter if i press it in to turn on or let go.
the only time the led should turn on is when i have let go or pressed the second button :lol:
You did not answer all of my questions. So I have attached my suggestion without specifying Vcc and some resistor values.
When A is pressed, the counters count up. When A is released, counters stop. If B is pressed briefly, the LED is turned on and the counters count down until they reach 0000 0000 at which point they stop counting and the LED goes out.
Edit, I deleted the circuit and posted a revised one below.
Len