Well, lead oxides are soluble in acids, e.g., vinegar. Some people say that is what killed the Romans (BTW, lead oxides are sweet. They were used as a cheap substitute for sugar.).
There are some videos on the internet of various formulations of lead paste. Of course, the Kester brand with bright, shiny balls forms a very nice joint. The "other" brand does not. As I said, I don't see how balls vs. flakes/shavings per se will make much difference. Albeit, balls have less surface area per volume than flake/shaving have. I do think surface oxidation on the lead will make a difference. So, however you prepare the paste, try to avoid surface oxidation, which will form quite quickly. Ever try to solder aluminum? Same problem, but much worse, as aluminum is much more reactive with air. Aluminum solders are typically high in zinc, which counteracts that effect.
John