I got it working, used my laptop and a equalizer and turned everything over 328hz off and bass boosted plus 12db and i vibrates in time with the sound effects, when not firirng the motors are quiet, when firing they are working and the louder it is the more intense.
Thank you to everyone who helped, project is far from finished as its currently screwed to a piece of MDF on the kitchen table BUT i got it working... now need to work out who these chinese amp and low pass filters work and wire them up, sew the motors into a singlet in various places and a whole ton of stuff but i did it!!!
I actually did it!!!!! YAY for me!!!! My very first circuit!!!!!!!!!