Look in any bookstore for electronics books. most of them contain info on soldering.
also, there was a step-by-step topic on soldering buried somewhere in this forum. you may want to use that too.
Also, when you get to high school, look for electronics classes. Most high schools SHOULD have an electronics class. if not, convince your parents to move to a different resisdence IMMEDIATELY.
disregard my last senctence.