BobW I understand that problem with eyesight, fingers, and steadiness. I have several different eyeglasses of different diopters and a magnified headvisor to boot. I have even had two pair of glasses (1.50 and 2.00 power) and a headvisor stuck on my pinpoint head at the same time.
If you disassemble SMD PCB's you will sometimes see a dot of adhesive under components. In my very limited experience, it was red. A little searching later disclosed that LocTite (and probably other vendors) sell an adhesive for PCB assembly. A quick test (to a chemist) was consistent with that adhesive being a cyanoacrylic type (aka CA). That is, at moderate heat it decomposed to acrylic fumes. I tried to buy some, but found the only quantities available were industrial quantities. I then tried "slow" CA which works. Also old medium or thin CA that has thickened with time has been used. You need a CA that will allow a little pushing around to get final alignment before it sets. It does not hold that firmly at soldering temperature, but it holds well enough to get one side or one pin of your components soldered (for IC's, I rarely use CA). I use it mostly for two-terminal and and occasional SOT23-3 device. One nice thin about CA is that its polymerization is base catalyzed. The PCB itself (homemade) or solder resist is quite non-reactive. So, you do have quite a few seconds to get the part adjusted. Then press on it with a little music wire "toothpick," and it will set. To apply the spots, I put a small puddle of CA on scrap copper PCB, then transfer a microdot with the steel toothpick to where I want the device. That allows me to put several devices on the board, then solder them, rather than place device, solder, place device, solder, and so forth. A little too much CA is typically not a problem. It is vaporized easily by heat and, I suspect, might even act as a flux.
My concern with LG's description is that while he may have used CA, it sounded as if he was not doing it properly. Most fluxes are mildly acidic. Applying the flux,then applying CA might work to prevent its polymerization or adhesion to the board.
John