You could connect the supply to pins 4 and 13, and connect the lamp to 8 and 9.
The lamp will illuminate when the relay is energised.
By "your standard 60w bulb" I assume that you mean the sort of thing used to light up the room in a house.
In which case you will need 240 volts.
A few cautions!
Are the relay contects rated for 240v AC, is the circuit board(?) rated for 240v AC.
Can the relay contacts handle the current ? (about 1 amp surge at switch on)?
JimB