Holy Crap guy...you mention that you are selling these boards. I dont know how they will work....for long, as the chemical you are slapping on is slowly eating away at the solder joints, AS WELL AS THE COPPER ON THE BOARD...and will eventually break down the connections. How the hell can you be a "experienced member"...if you dont even know how to solder?!!!!!!!???.
Its a bit like saying that ur a Prostitute...yet still a Virgin.
The soldering technique that you are using is best suited for plumbing, not PCB work....PERIOD...and wouldnt even make particulary good connections in the plumbing field
If you are concerned about cooking components....its practically guaranteed that you will, with the technique that you are using!
Do yourself a favour....go out and get yourself a good quality, low-wattage soldering iron, or a adjustable temperature unit...specifically for pcb work, and a good quality electronics solder.
Once again GOOGLE saves the day
(just 1 example...there are literally hundreds of soldering guides available)
http://www.epemag.wimborne.co.uk/solderpix.htm
HEAT THE JOINT....
NOT THE SOLDER. JUST PUT A SMALL AMOUNT OF SOLDER ON THE TIP JUST PRIOR TO SOLDERING, TO HELP WITH THERMAL TRANSFER....this will allow the solder to flow onto the pad much quicker, and at a lower temperature. The amount of solder on the tip should NEVER be enough to actually make the joint. Keep touching the solder to the joint, until it begins to melt, then just let the solder flow over the joint...nice and smooth, and shiney...and dont use a ton of solder, just enough to make a good quality joint. Inspect your joints with a magnifying glass, until you get good at it. Buy a solder sucker as well, so if you have a bad joint, or have too much solder, that reheating, and resoldering will not help, you can slurp up the connection and start again
Follow these simple rules of soldering....with the right size pencil, and solder....KEEP WIPING YOUR TIP WITH A WET SPONGE OR CLOTH, BEFORE AND AFTER EACH JOINT, and you will
NEVER cook a component, and the amount of left over Rosin will be almost neglegable.
REMEMBER...A CLEAN TIP IS YOUR BEST FRIEND...CONSTANT WIPING OF THE TIP BEFORE AND AFTER EACH JOINT WILL MAKE THE BEST CONNECTION...BOTH VISUALLY, AND MECHANICALLY. AS WELL, TINNING OF THE TIP PRIOR TO EACH SOLDERING SESSIONAND AT THE END OF EACH SESSION, WILL PROLONG THE LIFE AF THE TIP, AND WILL GUARANTEE A TIP THAT IS EASY TO KEEP CLEAN DURING THE SOLDERING PROCESS. YOU DONT NECESSARILY NEED ANY SPECIAL TINNING PASTE, LIKE SHOWN IN THE GOOGLE LISTING....FINE SANDPAPER, OR STEEL WOOL WILL ALSO DO.
You seem to be almost as bad as a friend of mine that I had in grade school. Whenever he soldered, he would hold the iron abouut 1 inch above the connection, heat the solder on the tip until enough melted, and dripped onto his connection. He always wondered why my circuits worked, and his didnt. I made a lot of money resoldering his projects over one summer.