="PDDD, post: 1241526, member: 259786"]
Having said all that if there is no voltage on the drain unless the 30 volts is blowing them something else is wrong.
The circuit Ron posted is called a bootstrap circuit - you can google it. What happens is the cap gets charged up to about 11.4 volts either thru your load or the bottom FET when it is on and the diode. That voltage gets "added" to the voltage on the source so the gate will be 11.4 volts higher than the source at all times. The cap must be large enough that it does not get discharged very much when operating at the lowest frequency - in your case 8 ms. If you need the top FET to be able to stay on forever the circuit won't work. I suspect that is why Ron ask you if your load was a motor.Thank you, Ron! Now I see why you have so many likes! Actually, I'm glad you mentioned 300 to 400 Volt H-bridges. Are you using enhancement mode MOSFETS or something else? I wanted to run higher VDD, but I can never get more than the Gate voltage through the MOSFET!
The opto won't create a pulse on power up. It has a circuit that keeps it's outputs safe until the voltage is 13.5 volts. Since we don't know what the whole circuit looks like it is possible that the 30 volts is on and the opto is being told to turn on by the circuit that drives it. Running the opto and the FET at their maximum rating is not a real good idea anyway, so maybe if you have 15 volts somewhere you can use that and power your other circuit from that as well.The opto gate driver spikes to VDD for 5 to 15uS at power up and power down, in the same way a monostable multivibrator does if the reset is not held low during power up. So turning off the opto causes the same problem as turning it on.
Having said all that if there is no voltage on the drain unless the 30 volts is blowing them something else is wrong.