Hy fire,
It is bloody annoying when other things get in the way of electronics- my wife is particularly good at that.
It is not too bad- only around 200W maximum, also there doesn't seem to be any serious size constraints . It is only the transistor junction temperature and collector resistor temperature that need to be kept within bounds.
Multiplexing is a good idea in general, but not suitable for this application. The tube type and fine control that you require would not be comparable with multiplexing.
Yes, I was worried about the low secondary voltage with 100V mains input. What rectifier diodes are you using? I know you are adverse to winding transformers but why not put another winding on the transformer core to increase the secondary voltage. As far as I can see, it would be dead easy- you may have to put the Old Rosie down though and use both hands.
Agree, but Les has suggested a good way to reduce the striking power supply voltage.
In parallel with the electronic design proving, it is best to consider the case design and thermal management for the 'production' model. In my experience, most home projects fail, not so much because of the technology, but because of a failure to complete the case and mechanical aspects- I had hundreds of technically proven projects that never got to fruition for this reason. If you see the case deign as a problem, just post your requirements and I or others will suggest a deign for you to consider. I think it would be a simple design, subject to your requirements that is.
They are obsolete transistors but more than adequate for your job
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