Electric current is defined as; the rate of flow of charge. So, within an interval of time, if an amount of charge flows, then the current is (amount of charge /time interval). So mathematically, current i = q/t
For time varying circuit analysis, the time period is mathematically reduced to 'zero' and the incremental current is described as dq/dt and this means the (incremental change of charge/ a small increment of time). Summing the change of charge over time (integration) gives the total charge and hence the capacitor voltage from Vc= Qtot/C as you have said.
I am terrible at explaining what im thinking, i knew that but i didnt realise d was "a small change in" i thaught it was a sample of a changing number and not a range
Often the lower case 'd' is taken to be "delta" which is used to indicate a small change in the variable that follows. So a few examples:
dt: a small change in t
dq: a small change in q
dv: a small change in v
di: a small change in i
and usually we'll see them in pairs being divided by another like:
dv/dt
which means "the change in voltage with respect to time", or more literally, "a small change in voltage as the time changes by a small amount".
When you integrate one of these by the respective variable you get the top variable as result, plus an as yet undefined constant:
Integral(dv/dt) with respect to time = v+K
Integral(di/dt) with respect to time = i+K