Get a pack of these, attach some wires and try them in pairs to get matched ones:
Manufacturer: Cantherm. B 25/50: 3470K. Resistance in Ohms @ 25°C: 10k. Color: Black,Silver. ROHS Compliant: Yes. Lead Free: Yes. Resistance Tolerance: ±5%. We will work with you to until you are satisfied.
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Then epoxy two similar ones together so the temperatures stay the same & try warming & cooling them to see if the controller then switches on & off correctly?
Or a couple of these pre-wires "waterproof" ? ones that claim 1% tolerance: