Without someone to direct you, starting at the basics is actually harder. Start at the top and just keep pulling apart the ideas until you get to the bottom.
I agree with that 100%.
However that is the entire point of this forum, at least by the way I see it. Here is a community, here is the feedback and direction someone in Deans's position can benefit from greatly, so long as we all don't get so carried away with topics so far off the main post that Dean runs away because he's not getting answers that are useful.
I personally thrive in the area of theory and wanting to learn more, I only really dabble in electronics as a practical hobby, though I'm gearing up for some real hardcore experimentation within the next few years. Most people don't think that far along though or have a concept of just how much there really is to learn, I'm still a noob after something like 6 years into this as a hobby. I've only a modest collection of knowledge and devices, but it's enough for me. Deans gotta find what's right for them without us telling him what that is.
As far as I'm concerned you have to look at it all and do what you think is best =) So don't do what any one of us suggests, just listen to all of us, and then do what
you think is best. No matter how you do things you'll hit dead ends snags and problems of many kinds. Just keep at it as much as your interest pans out. As far as Deans needs to have something right here and now to test personally I'm from the opposite end of the spectrum, but I fully understand his need for it, that's what he needs, lets lean towards getting him what he needs =)
I would however also recommend buying some dirty cheap kits to get your feet wet in the physical construction department.
One of the most difficult things I can see is that you need to actually want to DO something before you can learn anything, and you have to want to do it enough that you'll learn things you might otherwise find distasteful to accomplish, in the end even the things you find most trivial and pointless are incredibly important.