Hi Tom,
Thank you for your kind reply! I don't know why the other guys have such an attitude...
The optocouplers are AVAGO HCPL-J312-000E. The output pin goes straight to the gate of the N-Channel Mosfet. When the opto is turned on, it sends a 5uS pulse to the Gate. The voltage does not exceed the Mosfet specs and the current is limited by a 1K resistor to ground. No power on the drains. Source to ground. But when both sides of the bridge receive this spike at the same time, it appears to cause the Mosfets to fail, even though no drain voltage present.
I realize I haven't uploaded a schematic yet, but its just a straight line between the opto output and the FET gate. The issue doesn't involve switching frequency, unless you're thinking to suggest a low pass filter. In that case, my switching frequency is in the Hz range while the nuisance spike would presumably be in the KHz range.
I appreciate your interest in helping.
Cheers to you also!