Thanks, jerryd, I'll certainly take a gander.
I am good at figuring stuff out, but as far as electronics go, "figuring stuff out" usually translates to "destroying them until I give up, run out of components, or die trying". My budget and time doesn't allow this. The big thing with electronics is that I cannot prototype, I cannot rely on any simulations because they make as little sense to me as the magical components themselves. I cannot trace trajectories, use kinematics to determine the motions and then invoke kinetics to calculate the forces because nothing happens! I need to be able to use the theory I know and apply it practically, I need to know that something will work in practice before starting to build it. I need to know... if I knew what I needed to know I wouldn't have asked.
Anyway, some of the books we used during our undergraduate studies were by Nilsson and Riedel (Electric Circuits), and Roadstrum and Wolaver Electrical engineering for All Engineers. Good books, but insufficient. There was a third, but I can't remember the authors and I'm not going to look now. Even so, I know that there is a thing called a FET, e.g. JFET, MOSFET etc., but we only did some calculations with BJTs, and then only the T-model and the hybrid-pi model - I still don't know the difference between the two, how to choose between the two, or what power they can control vs. power they consume, what will destroy them and what will prevent them from working. I don't know where to apply power calculations to most electrical components, except electric machines, electromagnets and resistors (yes, I know P=EI=IR^2=V^2/R, but which does what where?). And then I still don't know how to calculate which wire to use to wire an electromagnet for use in an electric machine, or a field effect guitar pickup... When is a transistor a switch and when is it an amp? How much power during each mode of operation? And, get this: apparently an op-amp can be considered to be two transistors, while a transistor can be thought of as two op-amps! How do I use the information in the data sheet of some component to decide whether it will do what I ask it to do without getting fried, or being underpowered?
I'll say this again: electronic components do not cost fractional amounts in SA, the cheapest stuff go for several rand. I do not have money to waste on incorrect components. And simply copying other people's designs is not learning, it's copying. And the same goes for text books, which cost anywhere from R500 to R1000, even if it costs only a few US$ or GB£ in their local markets.
OK, I'll stop ranting, since I'm the only one apparently not making sense to anyone.