I think i will be going with infrared. The RC seems far too easy. The project needs some self-built parts to it so the infrared controller would be perfect to build!
Just looked into the AT89C51 and seems it needs some extensive knowledge of PIC programming? Im not very competent with advanced programming but have used simple PIC programmes. Im sure i could figure it out after working out what i need it to do etc
Would probably be able to work the circuit out on my own now i know which PIC to use
Thanks for the help.