If you connect pin 9 to pin 3 you'll put the chip in bar mode.
That said there are different ways of getting bar mode, you can put the chip in dot mode and connect the led's in series.
You say that the chip turns one led off, are you saying all the leds light and the indicated led goes out?, sounds like maybe your using a common cathode display if thats the case, the chip is meant for a common anode, not a problem if your using individual leds, but is an issue if your using a module with a com cath.