There area a couple of problems with that circuit. Firstly, it's quite easy for the MOSFET only turn on a bit, which will make it get hot. To deal with that you should have some sort of schmitt trigger. You could use a 74HC14.
Secondly, it's very easy to pick up electrical noise when there is an input impedance high enough to read the current through your finger. You will get large voltages at mains frequency any where near mains voltage wiring. That can easily lead to the load turning on and off at main frequency, even though there is no main connection. You can use an RC low pass filter to remove the mains signals.