Hi this site and rf global net are really helpful. i got the answer already after much hard work and -35 dBm gain of help from you guys et al.
i think i understand now, you guys give me the cold shoulder so i could come up with the solution on my own after much frustration and researching, while i should be out clubbing with the guys and getting sweet honies' phone numbers.
kinda like in last dragon, where leroy's quest to find the master was already within him!
cruel...but nonetheless instructive.