ok, I mean the safety ground, the green-yellow. This meets the blue/neutral at the meter box. There is a connection to the earth spike. But as mentioned, earth spike is useless at 240/0 V.
So, only safety ground to the metal housing, its quiet. Putting the full connection back, L/N/safety ground, the noise is back. So I guess the main transformer (220W) makes the hum and induces it into the housing, even when switched off. As the off switch is single prong, so one end of the transformer could sit on L or N. .au plug is not symmetrical, have to check. So the L end of the transformer should be actually disconnected. But I built it in Europe initially, where the plugs are symmetrical, so did not bother. It did hum back there as well, so its nothing to do with my particular home.
'Buzz' has a sharp edge to it - there is usually a low frequency component, but it has a hard sound that may even be audible in tweeters at times. Buzz is caused by any number of things - input leads close to mains wiring, power transformer or bridge rectifier (and associated wiring), bad or no earth connection, loops (they can cause buzz as well as hum), the list is almost endless."
https://forums.audioholics.com/forums/threads/getting-rid-of-transformer-hum.3879/
hm, ok, its more a buzz. When I run the emps via wht lab power supply, there was a very faint 50z sine tone from the low driver, but that I can live with. Not listening to it wtih 2cm distance. So now, put transformer into separate housing. Power supply needs ceramic caps across diodes (instead film caps). Will pull out the transformer tonight and move it away from the housing, see what happens then. Would a double shielded transformer help, read something about some special shield?
edit: yes, the life wire was connected to the transformer, the switch went to neutral. Took the transformer out and now is quiet, even power cord pluuged in.