My twopence.
Firstly microwave turntable motors can be handy, one of thier syncracies is that the direction on power up is random, and if you stall or overload them they will start in the opposite direction (seen this on disco light effects).
I have a few old electric clocks which have a similar design motor, they have a spindle at the back that you twiddle on power up to make sure the clock goes the right way, sometimes they'll start backwards.
I've seen a few articles in electronics magazines and a couple of kits or ready made boards for multi function timers, you could start with one of these, allthough it'd be a lot easier with something like the one above, you can get these designed to fit nicely into a case for use with central heating boilers.