To some extent I have found the answer on the Net :
here :
http://www.acoustica.org.uk/other/mains_Z.html . " IEC725:1981 models the European domestic mains supply as having an impedance of
(0.4+j0.25)ohms. Surprisingly, measurement shows that the UK agrees with or somewhat betters the model on the whole, at something like (0.25+j0.23) ohms."
here :
http://www.compliance-club.com/archive/old_archive/000610.html "Impedance of the Low Voltage Network
This is defined in IEC725:19815 as
Z=(O.4+jO.25)ohms = O.4ohms + O.8mH
This represents the entire impedance of the generating system including the LV, MV & HV networks as seen by the consumer. For major countries, using the 230V supply system, at the extremes the UK is the best at less than (0.25+j0.23)ohms and Ireland is the worst at (1.03+j0.55)ohms both at 90% of locations. In the UK only 2% of consumers have supply impedances above the standard value whereas in Ireland 40% have. These are 1981 figures but there is no reason to think that they have changed substantially over the last 19 years".
There also several videos on Youtube where you can see measurements with a 800$ Fluke meter showing plug Z of rarely better than 0,4 ohm, done by people like you or me. The meter also displays the calculated short circuit current, several hundred A, not in the thousand A range.
Plugging R=0,4 and Xl=0.25 ohms into my computer software gives the following 3 curves for a sudden short-circuit between phase and neutral, at 2, 5 and 8 mS into the cycle.
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Obviously the circuit breaker will intervene early but I don't know when. In these 3 cases, the current reached 50A at 213, 127 and 234 uS after the short-circuit. Maybe somebody knows about circuit breaker speed to see if these 50A ramp up times check out. Note that short-circuit occuring at voltage peak would give the slowest current ramp up.