IR remote switch

hi i have to to make a IR remote switch that can make one bulb on/off using only one relay ,ill use AT89c51 or any 8-bit UC but i dont know how to proceed which remote should i choose and how remote receiver will work. any help or website link would be highly appreciated.thanks

lol look at most of my topics and you will see all the info you need

Here: https://www.electro-tech-online.com/threads/sony-infared-code-in-c18.93570/

Scroll down until u see the video...

i want schematic and programming code for it