Thanks, I did put the jumper, and got life from the firefly. Even programmed my 16F88 once successfully. But I tried to change the pinout prog, and that didn't work, so I tried another programmer, the MPlab PM3, and it started writing stuff on the screen, so I shut down MPlab with the task manager, and now I don't get power to the firefly, nor does pickit read the chip anymore, it seems like I killed the app... :~(
I just found out my pic change worked, so I changed programmer for nothing, it was working fine, and caused myself trouble for nothing. Now I still don't get power to the firefly, probably because MPlab PM3 did some damage when I shut it off while it was running.