can you use a lm3915 bar graph display IC? you connect an audio source to it, and it will light up a series of led's depending on the intensity of the music. Then you take one of the outputs that lights up an LED, and connect that to the clock of your counter.
instead of lighting up an led when the audio source is loud enough, it will increment your counter, causing different leds to be lit up. Then you can arrange the leds in a niffty pattern. It works really good if you have it connected to a LPF, so the pattern will change only on the low frequencies.
It's alittle complitcated, but it's also very cool.
I did this in my car
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